Posted by rwb on July 21, 2007 at 15:20:47 (EST):
In Reply to: Re: road side memorials posted by Guest on July 21, 2007 at 14:08:20 (EST):
: : Let me guess, you "rent" or live in one of those gov't housings. Yes I condone that Trooper. Who in the hell wants that kind of garbage on their property, wheather its private or commericial. I'm not cold or heartless, I'm saying, take your "Love One" to there proper resting place. Well I'm wanting to know, where do you live? _________________ We'll come and set up a memorial in your yard.
: : : Your cold and heartless. A young girls life was cut to short. Family and friends are allowed to mourn. Do you acutally condone what that heartless trooper did? Just go crawl back under whatever rock you came out from under.
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: I feel for the family and friends and think that a small cross or a few flowers to mark the anniversary would be appropriate but think what is there is a little overboard. I don't understand why the accident sight has to be the place for people to gather. Create a shrine where the remains are and gather there to mourn or remember. I think the accident sight would be the last place I would want to be all the time to remember my daughter. It can be done but do it with some taste.
It probably seems callous to family and friends now but I think someday they will think otherwise. There are probably so many things going through their minds now but time changes feelings etc. Sure they will always think about her but something more private would probably be appropriate.